You Can't take it Back

Galatians 5:22-26
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,  gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.  And those who areChrist’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.  If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.  Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.

What is the fruit of self control?  If we say something in anger, frustration, self pity, towards someone we can't take back those words.  Self control gives us the power to NOT say or do the things in the flesh that we want to out of wrong motives.  It gives us back love.  Gal. 5: 14 tells us the law is fulfilled in one word "LOVE" your neighbor as yourself.  Love produces the fruit.  Love is a choice.